Sorry I haven’t posted in a week guys. Guess I thought in some way you all would be entertained by Eban’s site and listen to some music while I took a week off from the web.
Just like my baby Sister, I have been super crazy busy. Although, I have been taking my two FULL days off each week (not a few hours here and there). Angel…I hope you can get more balance soon, as your big Sis I will always worry about you. Anyway, my life is changing, my work is changing (big time), my marriage is changing and it is ALL very good indeed.
Am getting back on track with my life. I have not really been ‘living’ for some time now. I am taking time for myself when I can, I have started a ‘real’ weight loss program with friends here, I have been choosing to be happier more, I am not procrastinating as much and will continue to take the baby step approach if I feel procrastination coming on (baby steps lead to giant steps), I will not do things for other people when I don’t want to or don’t have time to, I will quite simply be the real me…..
I’ve been taking my two days off a week for a while now and realising I don’t need to work the weekends to ‘catch up’ or ‘get a head start’, we are restructuring at work and I am looking at this as a positive, my role at work may very well change soon and I am looking at this as a positive, we are having a big office move because of the restructuring and I am looking at this as a positive, The Body Shop is doing very well as a multi-channel (retail, e-commerce and direct sales), global (45 countries) company, it feels great to be part of the company’s success.
Last but not by any means least…I am taking more of a focus with my marriage to Eban, he is the most important aspect of my life, he always supports me so I am supporting him, I am doing my best to ‘listen’ better when we are communicating, we are having more meaningful ‘loving’ encounters which is bringing us closer together than we ever have been before, we are cherishing the time we have together more and not sitting in front of the tv as much, we are having more fun together, we are not taking advantage of each other anymore, we are ‘living’ life together more and it is great.
All these changes have been a long time coming and they all seem to be falling into place right now, finally. It feels great to take a proactive approach with your own life! I am determined more than ever to enjoy all aspects of my life and if anything starts to go wrong, I will start to fix it immediately and not wallow in pity ever again! I am really getting to know the real me after all this time…